The Scorpio Pendant

You are a one love kind of person. Until you find your one and only, you will be hard to pin down. Your ideals about love are lofty, leaving you occasionally disappointed and wary to take risks or make big gestures when dating. Your penetrating stare and equally piercing questions leave people uneasy in your presence. This can make dating hard for you as you prefer depth over surface and soul string interactions over the summer lovin’ kind of romances Hollywood favors. When you do find your forever person, you will move mountains for this relationship. Valentine’s Day will not just fall on the 14th of February, it will also be celebrated the remaining 364 days of the year. You will build a very special life for you and your love, the kind most people only dream of in their wildest dreams. You will expect honesty and unfaltering dedication. Anyone who abuses your trust will not be welcomed back into your life. You are looking for a soulmate. Nothing less will do.

How to a Spot a Scorpio

Look for the mysterious stranger across the room. If you feel naked, when you meet his or her gaze, chances are you have crossed paths with a Scorpio. Scorpios prefer to observe people, before jumping into an animated conversation. In fact, they prefer one-on-one interactions versus loud group discussions. While no two Scorpios are ever the same, most Scorpios are cautious to open up to strangers, preferring to keep their cards close to their chest. When approaching a Scorpio, consistency and honesty are the best way to gain their respect. Remember Scorpios have probably had their fair share of disappointments. Patience and persistence will pay off more than any grand romantic gesture. Less is more with this sign. It is better to build a rapport gradually and practice the art of listening. More than any other sign, Scorpio is looking for a partner they can drop their guard with and build true intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Romantic gestures will be appreciated later when your love has matured.

Scorpios are most compatible with other water signs, Cancer and Pisces. However, earth signs Taurus and Capricorn can work well with Scorpio thanks to their measured, hard-working, yet passionate personalities. Jay Gatsby from F. Scott Fitzgerald’s famous book is often cited as an accurate example of the Scorpio personality.

“He smiled understandingly-much more than understandingly. It was one of those rare smiles with a quality of eternal reassurance in it, that you may come across four or five times in life. It faced--or seemed to face--the whole eternal world for an instant, and then concentrated on you with an irresistible prejudice in your favor. It understood you just as far as you wanted to be understood, believed in you as you would like to believe in yourself, and assured you that it had precisely the impression of you that, at your best, you hoped to convey.”

The Scorpio Woman

Scorpio women are looking for the kind of love that survives wars. They need to be reassured you will be true and hold them above all loves. A Scorpio beauty is legendary. Her gaze is spell-binding. Just one look and she can steal any man’s heart. They say that the eyes are the windows of the soul, never has this been truer than of the Scorpio. If you find yourself in love with a Scorpion, prepare for the many trials and tribulations ahead. This woman must be convinced of your love. She has a naturally suspicious nature and if she suspects you of being unfaithful in any manner, she will end the relationship without a second thought. This is a woman looking for a lifelong love affair between soulmates. Once you gain her trust, she will reward you with the kind of affection and sweetness seen only in romance novels.

Top Tip: Scorpios enjoy jewelry and romantic gestures after they are convinced they have found the one. If it is early days with your Scorpio, it might be best to get her a necklace with her sign, so you can reassure her you understand her unique and deep personality that you are committed for the long haul. Though she would never let on, she is not immune to doubt and looks for signs her lover understands her emotional depth and complex personality.